Are you feeling insecure that your girl has been with a lot of guys? When you find out that your girl had a lot of sex with guys, does it make you feel insecure, upset and mad? This is normal for the majority of men out there.
However, not every man in the West can up and move to the Philippines to date a loyal, younger, possibly untainted, family-oriented, Catholic, man-pleasing waif. Some of you may be considering a long-term relationship with a woman, or already in one only to find out that she has hosted had many, many penises of varying length, girth and colors in all her orifices. If that triggers you, please stop reading and for your sake pick up a copy of Quit Porn In 30 Days. For the record, I have dated women like that, but never in a long-term committed relationship scenario.
I do however, have casual sex with attractive women who have had a lot of sex with a lot of men, and I frequently keep them around as fuck buddies. Yes, it can be shocking to hear the sort of things a woman you are dating has done and experienced sexually. There are few questions you should ask yourself if you find yourself in this situation.
Your attractive girl has been approached by more men than you can ever imagine: She has been hit on since puberty. The UPS guy was trying to get her into his truck when she was a year-old playing hopscotch. Sex, sex sex! Everyone wants to bang her.
We illuminate this question here by an analysis of transcripts of qualitative interviews that one of us ford conducted in and with women students at an elite private university. my boyfriend called me a slut – now i dread seeing him
Now imagine that you were constantly propositioned for sex by women: crossing the road, opening a door, looking behind you on the street only to see women — both attractive and unattractive checking out your ass — yeah fun for a while, but all day, every hour, minute, and second? You know what?
Just like you sometimes screw up and stuff an entire box of Krispy Kreme donuts in your face, she sometimes screws up and takes some random dick. Lets say you find out that she had sex with a professional football player — some real athletic, dominant stud. You imagine that he banged the living daylights out of her. Guess what, ding dong? For her, these were just fun stories with a cool guy.
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For me, they were knives in my damn heart. I used to freak out when I found out that she was still friends with that ex, or still texting him. In my world of not-much-sexual-abundance, women were not supposed to text their exes, or still have them on facebook-especially when I know how much sex they had engaged in together. Attractive women today need a constant flow of positive emotions to survive and thrive in their social lives.
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Now, is it healthy? She is still friends with all those guys because its what keeps women — attractive women — happy and wanted in She can have sex with any of those men anytime she likes. You could be out with her to a club and she getting railed in a stairwell by an attractive guy she just met. Nothing you can do about it, player. Men, on the other hand, peak later in life — 30s through 40s and beyond if your finances, fitness and lifestyle are in order Check out wallstreetplayboys. Women are squeezing in the sexual experience a man would accumulate over 20 years into a shorter period of time.
My point is, if you choose to spend time with a woman described above, or if you choose to have sex with attractive women, you must change your attitude to actually want her to have had those experiences. Understand that most beautiful women who will have sex with you on the day you meet have probably been with a lot of men. I bring hot sand to the hot beach all the damn time, because I want to conquer my insecurities and its the most direct and uncomfortable means of achieving this goal.
Find a woman you can take out who turns you on when she speaks to another guy.
You know, the man whom she will be comfortable introducing to her friend for a threesome. Eventually, though, you will crack, freak out and slowly begin to judge her. Where is your self-respect? How can you hook up with three guys from Tinder within 24 hours?
Doing this will greatly reduce you sexual prospects — in most of the Western world, anyway. And bitterness in men le to misogyny. And misogyny is a waste of energy for a man.
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The facts are that women have access to a lot more penis than they ever did and men have access to a lot more vagina than they ever did, but men have also have more access to porn and that fucks your game up. So stop watching it. When you have sex in abundance, you will not judge her.
That is peddled by women, men with little sexual experience, and men who have already been with so many women that they have attained a certain level of self-realization.
You should be working on all aspects of your life. Improving yourself to the point where you have access to sex in abundance is a journey where you can have your cake and eat it. You will be shocked by the true nature of women, you will be hurt, you will be incredibly uncomfortable, but ultimately, you will grow to the point where you realize what work best for YOU.
You wont need a blog or a book to guide you. Promiscuous women are the reality of our society — whether you agree with it or not. The good news is that relationships are about the bond and quality intimate time spent together.
She may have had a thousand and one penises in all her holes, but as long as she has deep feelings for you, chill out. Attractive men and women understand that they are attractive and will naturally have sex with other people. If you want to find out what the world of an attractive woman is life, ask an attractive woman whom you are hanging out with to show your her text messages.
Become the kind of man who gets it and you will become part of the world of attractive people who have sex with other attractive people. Let go of your insecurity and let life do its thing. This post originally appeared at Quit Porn, Get Girls. You may unsubscribe at any time. Why do you feel the way you do? Is it because you are more insecure than she is? Does it bother you that she has had life experiences that you have not? Does it make you feel that she is comparing you to other guys when you fuck?
Here are some facts for you: Fact 1: Your attractive girl has been approached by more men than you can ever imagine: She has been hit on since puberty. Fact 3: Attractive women today need a constant flow of positive emotions to survive and thrive in their social lives. Change your attitude towards attractive women: My point is, if you choose to spend time with a woman described above, or if you choose to have sex with attractive women, you must change your attitude to actually want her to have had those experiences.
Then get back to work breaking down those insecurities. You will eventually lose access to great sex. If a woman has had a thousand and one penises in her — stay the fuck away. More From Thought Catalog. Get our newsletter every Friday! You're in! See you Friday. Follow Thought Catalog.